Ciara leveled up with the lovely ladies at Red Table Talk, where she revealed details about her past engagement with ex-fiancé Future and love with her husband Russell Wilson.

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Using her parents’ marriage as a compass for love, she dished to Jada Pinkett-Smith, Adrienne Banfield-Norris and Willow Smith on why she decided to end her past engagement with Future.

“The one thing I fear in life is really wasting my life. I really fear that ‘cause you realize that time does not stop and it will be the worst scenario to stay in a situation that it’s just not healthy, it’s not going to get any better,” she dished.

Realizing “this can’t be love,” Ciara focused on motherhood and later met Russell Wilson—a love she describes as “different” and “calm.” What do you think of Ciara spilling the tea? Tune in to see what our Dish Nation hosts think!

CIARA REVEALS THE SECRET TO ABSTINENCE WITH RUSSELL WILSON